Child safety standards
Spotysum is an adult dating service operated by The Irum. Membership is restricted to people aged 19 or older. These standards apply to profiles, photos, messages and all other content or conduct on the service. Effective October 29, 2026.
Zero tolerance for abuse or exploitation
Child sexual abuse and exploitation (CSAE) and child sexual abuse material (CSAM) are prohibited. This includes sexual content involving anyone under 18, sexual solicitation or grooming of a minor, trafficking, sextortion, and any attempt to create, request, distribute or link to such material. Synthetic, AI-generated or altered depictions are also prohibited. Adults must not use Spotysum to contact or exploit minors. Accounts belonging to anyone under 19 are not permitted.
Report a concern
Use Report on a profile or conversation, or Profile → Support & appeals. You can also contact theirum.official@gmail.com without signing in. Include the account or conversation reference and approximate time if known. Do not download, forward or attach suspected CSAM. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.
Response and enforcement
We review safety reports, restrict access to content identified as CSAM, remove prohibited content and suspend or terminate offending accounts as appropriate. We preserve only evidence needed for investigation and legal obligations, restrict access to authorized personnel and cooperate with competent authorities. We report confirmed CSAM to the relevant regional authority, or another legally required reporting body, in accordance with applicable law. Members may appeal an action through support; an appeal does not restore access while a serious safety risk is being reviewed.
Designated safety contact
Geon Young Choi (최건영), The Irum
theirum.official@gmail.com
+82 10-4219-2567
The designated contact receives child safety inquiries from Google Play, other platforms and authorities and coordinates report handling. Our Privacy Policy explains data handling and retention.